Asking Questions
The right question matters more than which deck you use or the vibe you set—it's the key to finding the answers you're looking for.
When you ask a clear and precise question, you'll get the best answers. Here are three easy steps to help you come up with the perfect question for your tarot cards.
First, remember that you have a say in your future. You're not just watching your life happen—your choices matter. Your actions are what shape your destiny.
Next, be clear about what you want. There's a reason you're asking, so say it out loud. What outcome do you want, and why is it important to you?
Finally, craft your question. Make it thoughtful and make sure it involves you shaping your future. There's no single perfect question, but starting with honesty and sincerity usually works best. Here are a few tips to help you out.
When you're looking for a good solution to a problem, asking an open question usually gets you better answers. For example, instead of asking 'Will I find my soulmate?' try asking 'What can I do to attract a healthy romantic relationship into my life?' The first one might just give you a 'yes' or 'no', but the second one encourages a more detailed and useful answer.
Always keep your questions personal and focused on yourself. Avoid questions about other people. For example, instead of 'What does my boss think of me?', ask 'How can I improve my relationship with my boss?' This way, the focus stays on you and what you can control.
Keep It Simple
When you're reading for yourself, asking concise questions is key to getting the most useful answers. Avoid cramming all your worries into one question—stick to one simple question at a time. This clarity sharpens the answers and can reveal patterns in the cards.
Questions that start with 'when' or 'why' are often less helpful. Instead, focus on 'what' or 'how' questions for practical and effective answers. For instance, instead of asking 'When will I get a pay rise?' try 'What can I do to earn the pay rise I deserve?' The latter gives you actionable steps you can take.
Getting started with Tarot can be a bit daunting, leaving you unsure of what to ask and feeling a bit nervous or overwhelmed. But don’t worry—your Tarot deck is patient and ready to guide you. When in doubt, a simple question like 'What do I need to know right now?' is always a good place to start, no matter what's going on in your life.
During a reading, it’s easy to get sidetracked by a card or theme that grabs your attention and takes you off on a tangent. Remember to come back to your original question unless you decide it’s no longer relevant.
Practice Asking Questions
Choose a question
Think about a clear and relevant question you want to explore. Let your intuition guide you.
The right setting
Find a quiet spot where you won’t be disturbed. Sit down, take a deep breath, close your eyes, set aside any worries, and relax.
Shuffle the Tarot deck
Pick your favorite deck and shuffle the cards gently and deliberately. This helps you focus and connect.
Draw a card
When you feel centered, ask your question aloud and draw a card randomly from the deck. Study the card closely, considering its symbolism and how it relates to your question.
Interpret the card
Look at the card’s imagery and symbolism, and think about how it connects to the keywords in your Tarot reference. Sometimes the meaning will be clear right away; other times, it might unfold gradually as you reflect on it.
